a moment to remember

~songs in my head~

没有地球太阳还是会绕.

But I don’t care what they say. I’m in love with you.

I just wanna fall and lose myself Laughing so hard it hurts like hell Forget about everything and run away, yeah

~ MOTTO ~
:: if you have tried your best, there's no need for regrets. ::

~ THOUGHTS ~
By ourselves we are too weak to hold our own even for a moment.

"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God" (Romans 8:28)

For what it's worth, it was worth all the while.

"God has given, God has taken, blessed be the name of God" (Job 1:21)

"I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out – plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

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:: juz taking a moment to remember ::

Wednesday, September 15, 2010 12:05 AM

hilarious and memorable weekend!

Last saturday, we went to meet the bachelors club for dinner at 85 market
along the way we met this super funny and weird and dangerous taxi driver
who was supposedly 75 yrs old
first thing he said to us was "wah 你们这两公婆，女的漂亮，男的也漂亮。。" （LOL）
then aft that he said he wanted to intro roland to his 18 yr old daughter "她的胸部大大粒的，没有打针的。。真的很大！"
i was laughing out loud all the way.
then after that he was telling us look at how fit he is, driving at 130km/hr, "look, now is 140km/hr liao"
this was on the TPE...
and he was driving 80km/hr on normal roads
accelerating at bends
tailgating the other cars
and this part when he told us his wife had died, he slapped his forehead and closed his eyes in a state of emo
while the car was still moving...
omg we were like so amused yet hanging on tight for our lives!!
he can drive yet turn ard to talk to us, treat us to eat coconut sweets that can only be found in "海南岛"
sometimes not even sure whether his eyes are on the road...
Ruifang said, the dinner at 85 market is to celebrate our "safety" hahaha

then he also asked us for "zhen zi" and roland gave him this number 8486 which stands for his birth yr and mine
guess what... the next day... 4D results.. 8486 was the 3rd prize!!!!
zomg.... it was freaking qiao!! if the uncle had bought the number, he will be richer now! hahaha

we were so shocked when we saw 8486 真的开！

---Somewhere between our laughs, our long talks, our silly little fights, and all our jokes, I fell in love.

Labels: if love wasnt so atrocious I would have stayed blind, why must we label everything?

0 wore their hearts on their sleeves

Tuesday, September 07, 2010 7:02 PM

"爱是一种依赖，是一种责任，是一种相互的依偎，喜欢是一种淡淡的莫名的好感，是一种突然间的冲动,是一种闪在脑里的念头，爱是一种埋在心里的翻江倒海，是不可以用任何的喜欢来代替，是一种力量！喜欢一个人，并不一定要爱她；但爱一个人的前提，却是一定要喜欢她. 喜欢很容易转变为爱，但爱过之后却很难再说喜欢。因为喜欢是宽容的；而爱，则是自私的。喜欢是一种轻松而淡然的心态。但爱，却太沉重。爱一但说出了口，变成了一种誓言，一种承诺. 执子之手，与之偕老。短短的八个字里却要包含多少的风风雨雨。"

- taken from some random blog.

how true is it?
i agree with this part -

喜欢是一种轻松而淡然的心态。但爱，却太沉重。爱一但说出了口，变成了一种誓言，一种承诺.

liking is much more carefree and you can close one or even two! eyes and like blindly... no factors are considered, but you simply go with your feelings of positivity and 好感..
but love, it is much more constrained, there are many factors to it (ie. your family's acceptance/objection, finances, character compatibility in the long term, etc) and it is a promise to someone else that your love is unconditional, given that you have decided that this person is the one you chose to love for the rest of your life....

i love this phrase 执子之手，与之偕老。some chinese sayings are so beautiful!

just some random thoughts...

---Somewhere between our laughs, our long talks, our silly little fights, and all our jokes, I fell in love.

Labels: if love wasnt so atrocious I would have stayed blind

0 wore their hearts on their sleeves

3:05 PM

on the topic of women's sacrifice during/after child-bearing

Valerie says (2:46 PM):
女人的牺牲。。。
是男人的话。。。
都应该爱惜和疼老婆
女人青春有限

YoU'lL nEvEr WaLk AlOnE says (3:01 PM):
...
wah
is this like a threat?

Valerie says (3:02 PM):
hahaha
no lah
it is just a REMINDER
是男人的话。。。

YoU'lL nEvEr WaLk AlOnE says (3:03 PM):
wah
ok...
play advanced psychology

after this conversation, i conclude
I AM REALLY PARANOID ABOUT AGING, SAGGING, & FATTENING!!

---Somewhere between our laughs, our long talks, our silly little fights, and all our jokes, I fell in love.

Labels: growing up

0 wore their hearts on their sleeves

Thursday, September 02, 2010 6:46 PM

This morning just when I was abt to leave my house for work
I received a call from the clinic
I was holding my breath
Until she said the results are normal!
Words can't express the relief and comfort I felt..
That my body behavior was wacky but it wasn't due to any cancer, infection or abnormalities...
This is such good news for me because I have been imagining the worst
Phew
Finally cleared my fears
Doc says once I get well from my cough and flu
I can go get the jabs
I guess the money spent for a less than 1min test was v well worth

I also didn't knew I have sensitive nose till recentLy
Doc said I hv extra sensitive nose
And my nose is blocked always causing me to breathe thru my mouth
And cuz the mouth cannot filter the air as well
Thr may be lots of particles tht goes down my throat causing me to accumulate pheglm
And causing itch and trigger cough
So she gave me nasal spray to use for one mth
Nv used one before so I had to read the manual haha

Lots of visits to doc recently
Thankfully my company benefits include the aviva card tht means the visits for regular consultations are free!

I just hope tht I will remain healthy
Been drinking lots more water than before by bringing a water bottle ard
I acty find water quite drinkable than before haha
And falling sick means I keep missing gym
Sigh no yoga and no body combat this wk
Boo :(
Jab jab
Looks like I can only practise my moves on roland hahha

---Somewhere between our laughs, our long talks, our silly little fights, and all our jokes, I fell in love.

Labels: growing up

0 wore their hearts on their sleeves

Wednesday, September 01, 2010 6:33 PM

15 minutes

On monday, roland & i went to have lunch with wenxin at this cafe called "15 minutes"

its housed inside lasalle...

we went during lunch because its canteen-style and everything is supposed to be ready for collection within 15minutes...

and because they give you this vibrator...hehehe....

it's called patron pager actually.

when your food is ready, this pager will vibrator, shake and light up in red!

like this... but of course it was vibrating.

wenxin showing off her sexy mole.

this was the only photo i remembered to take of the food we ordered.

because after that we were too eager to start...

this was roland's pasta - something with special pink sauce

that tasted somewhat like, sauce with red wine, in my opinion.

i forgot what roland said it tasted like...

i ordered mushroom arriabiata and it was pretty spicy, with jalapenos in it

wenxin had fish & chips, the fries and coleslaw was pretty good. but i din try the fish.

prices were below $10..

i want to go try the salads.. they put the veggies in this cookie jar and you can shake it

and then pour it out onto a plate.

gimmicky but its fun.

group shot...

candid shot taken by wenxin.

love it :)

there is this look of camaraderie & affection in our eyes... hahaha
it was unknowing & unintended.

i love my almond-colored cardigan too! its so versatile and comfy!!

definitely a great buy.

on impulse, and out of boredom with my hair (i have this bad habit of hankering for long long hair and then when i have it, i will have the itch to snip it),

i went to the hairdresser to snip off my hair & dye it violet.

all for only $22.60

$2.80 for cut and $19.80 for dye

the dye came out uneven lah! but well for such a cheap price i guess i cant really complain..

now i look like i only dyed the top 3 inches of my hair...

and the rest is still like black..