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:: juz taking a moment to remember ::

Tuesday, September 18, 2007 5:40 PM

random thoughts

you have what's called preconceived notions of the truth
and if you believe anything hard enough, it is fixed in your mind as the truth
and then if ten people hear and believe the same thing, it becomes the absolute truth
and 'truth' can happen behind your back

one example will be
a wife thinks her husband is having an affair cuz he comes home very late daily (preconceived notion)
she thinks about it everyday and the idea that he is having an affair becomes fixated as the truth
she talks to her friends and ask them for their opinions
they agree and suggest he could really be having an affair
and then it becomes the absolute truth that the husband is having an affair
and so the wife files for divorce, the husband is shocked
this is called the 'truth' happening behind the husband's back

a communications studies student comes up with a truth theory. but probably someone else have already thought of this before

anyway i bought a new hp. very pretty i love it. sad about my old phone, not being able to really use it anymore. but i guess we all have to move on. flip phone + nokia = old dream
come true


as for all other matters, i guess time will tell lah.
i think i am starting to have this "if its meant to be, its meant to be" attitude too
because i just cant live on fretting over stuff that have changed
circumstances change people's behavior and reactions i must admit
no point crying over split milk..
and maybe if i keep myself busy enough i have less troubles

and recently i realised how vicious people in hall can be...
its pretty sad to see everybody shooting down someone...
badmouthing them, not giving them even the benefit of doubt (a lesson my primary school form teacher imparted to me, i guess)
and to think we all used to be so good together
another example of having to move on in life
and sometimes it gets me thinking what are others saying behind my back to each other
humans are just so unreliable
and it surprises me how others dont really know me, and they have to ask me things that are so obvious..

i think i am just better off trusting myself

Signing off,
no more ink.

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