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:: juz taking a moment to remember ::

Tuesday, September 07, 2010 7:02 PM

"爱是一种依赖,是一种责任,是一种相互的依偎,喜欢是一种淡淡的莫名的好感, 是一种突然间的冲动,是一种闪在脑里的念头, 爱是一种埋在心里的翻江倒海, 是不可以用任何的喜欢来代替,是一种力量! 喜欢一个人,并不一定要爱她; 但爱一个人的前提,却是一定要喜欢她. 喜欢很容易转变为爱,但爱过之后却很难再说喜欢。因为喜欢是宽容的;而爱,则是自私的。 喜欢是一种轻松而淡然的心态。 但爱,却太沉重。爱一但说出了口, 变成了一种誓言,一种承诺. 执子之手,与之偕老。短短的八个字里却要包含多少的风风雨雨。"

- taken from some random blog.

how true is it?
i agree with this part -

喜欢是一种轻松而淡然的心态。 但爱,却太沉重。爱一但说出了口, 变成了一种誓言,一种承诺.

liking is much more carefree and you can close one or even two! eyes and like blindly... no factors are considered, but you simply go with your feelings of positivity and 好感..
but love, it is much more constrained, there are many factors to it (ie. your family's acceptance/objection, finances, character compatibility in the long term, etc) and it is a promise to someone else that your love is unconditional, given that you have decided that this person is the one you chose to love for the rest of your life....

i love this phrase 执子之手,与之偕老。some chinese sayings are so beautiful!

just some random thoughts...

---Somewhere between our laughs, our long talks, our silly little fights, and all our jokes, I fell in love.

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