a moment to remember

~songs in my head~

没有地球太阳还是会绕.

But I don’t care what they say. I’m in love with you.

I just wanna fall and lose myself Laughing so hard it hurts like hell Forget about everything and run away, yeah

~ MOTTO ~
:: if you have tried your best, there's no need for regrets. ::

~ THOUGHTS ~
By ourselves we are too weak to hold our own even for a moment.

"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God" (Romans 8:28)

For what it's worth, it was worth all the while.

"God has given, God has taken, blessed be the name of God" (Job 1:21)

"I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out – plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

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:: juz taking a moment to remember ::

Wednesday, June 25, 2008 12:52 PM

love and friendship and the rest

Matches to the keyholes do not come so easily, forcing the key into a hole that doesn't match will have zero result - the door will remain shut. To be able to get along well with someone is common. To live with someone and come to accept all all their good and bad habits forever is not as easily achievable. Things do not work out well between me and them for valid reasons - wrong timing, character clashes, immaturity etc.

But we all learn......we learn from our mistakes and minimise them in the next relationship. I am so grateful for the complete full closures I had for both relationships, as I have not lost them as pals. At the same time there are no longer any traces of negative feelings I have toward them. The long period of time taken to rebuild my independence is the most vital element that enabled me to emerge a wiser and more emotionally rational person now.
**Credits to mooksy

i found this paragraph on this girl's blog wic siting showed me.. and it really is very well written and meaningful. it fully embodies the sad truth about 2 ppl in a relationship, that it doesnt always work out as much as we want it to, and at the end of the day, the 2 ppl who were once seemingly perfect for each other part ways, but whats important is what they take away from the relationship - memories and lessons. and the next best thing after breakup is of course the friendship. i like the last sentence the most. it really describes how i feel and i have no regrets that i took so 'long' to get over. no repression of feelings means no bouncing back of feelings.

anyway im gg to post more photos of the sentosa trip. :))
go watch You dont mess with the zohan, i will give it 4.5/5! its damnn funny and i love comedies! hahha.. super nice movie. and i got my non-auth LV stuff, yay so nice! outside look damn real lor. just cannot open up wahaha..

anyway, i m very excited about the eshop biz that me and siting are setting up! we have settled on the name - gorgeousdaze (daze is a pun for days).. on hindsight, we shd have added 'our' to become ourgoreousdaze but oh well. it still sounds puuuuurfect :) hope our first batch of clothes will sell well! something she said yesterday hit me - her father told her to go ahead and set up online biz cuz we are still young, theres nth much to lose. so true. pls patronise our shop when its ready!:)

[Sitting Duck]: XIUYUN my msn msges not getting thru i think says (3:45 PM):
eh xy must promise me next time we haf kids and everything we'll still gather at each other's hse and bitch abt our husbands k
[Sitting Duck]: XIUYUN my msn msges not getting thru i think says (3:46 PM):
hahahaha me n other sec sch jc friends always promise..then in the end like cannot shi xian one
cos conflict, drift apart and everything
so sad

see siting suddenly so emo. haha. yeah but its funny 'bitch about our husbands' wahahah. if we want to bitch we cannot gather at each other's hse, must go starbucks or sth lo!

[Sitting Duck]: XIUYUN my msn msges not getting thru i think says (3:59 PM):
yeah i heard europe or dunno LV bags are cheaper by abt 3-400
but then ur air ticket there is already sky high
I'll be your best kept secret. says (3:59 PM):
haha buy during honeymoon
I'll be your best kept secret. says (3:59 PM):
husband sure say OK! WAHAHHAHA

goodbye or see you,
I'll be your best kept secret or your biggest mistake.

Labels: i have atrocious friends, if love wasnt so atrocious I would have stayed blind