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:: juz taking a moment to remember ::

Saturday, March 03, 2007 11:48 PM

the know-it-all

three days, three secrets.
one after another.
the degree of shock gets bigger,
and the impact of it too.
its good that i usually one ear in, one ear out.
i rmb just tt day, someone told me a gossip.. supposedly was a big gossip
and den i went "wah!" and stunned for a few moments until... i realise i already know it.. -__- i can be rather slow about recalling secrets i know. unless its my own secret lah.

this week, i dealed with many secrets, my own and others.. it feels rather strange to talk about something related to my secret(s) with people who doesnt know the secret(s) but should technically know about them because they are somewhat related to the people involved.

but anyway, although the three secrets are not directly related to me, but i feel rather involved in them. not all the secrets are bad, but the last one really makes me sad and i ponder about the consequences if it ever happens to me.
i think about nature vs nurture.
what really shapes a person's personality and behavior
what really influences the person in his/her daily practices, eating habits, living style etc.
the media is very powerful, especially what we see on tv.
it is one of the reasons why i am attracted to this industry,
yet at the same time i feel scared and detest its influence.
friends are also powerful shaping tools
cut and paste, copy and paste,
you inevitably get influenced by the way they behave, act, feel and think.
group-think, they say.
maybe to fit in.

well, i just hope that there would be a reasonable closure for each of these secrets, esp the last one. i feel sad for the person involved. and i also hope that there is hope in the second one. haha. for personal interest lah.

Signing off,
no more ink.

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