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没有地球太阳还是会绕.

But I don’t care what they say. I’m in love with you.

I just wanna fall and lose myself Laughing so hard it hurts like hell Forget about everything and run away, yeah

~ MOTTO ~
:: if you have tried your best, there's no need for regrets. ::

~ THOUGHTS ~
By ourselves we are too weak to hold our own even for a moment.

"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God" (Romans 8:28)

For what it's worth, it was worth all the while.

"God has given, God has taken, blessed be the name of God" (Job 1:21)

"I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out – plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for.” (Jeremiah 29:11)


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:: juz taking a moment to remember ::

Sunday, December 26, 2004 7:11 PM

qiu tian de tong hua...

let me narrate this touching drama i was watching.. many of u mite have seen tis b4 but upon watching it, i had some thoughts...

in tis korean drama series, its abt theres tis girl called en xi and her bro called jun xi.. they have a close relationship.. n the guy actor has really v mesmerizing eyes.. that make him so cute.. their family is rich.. one day the parents found out that en xi is not their real daughter. their real daughter (lets call her Baddie) has been accidentally swapped at birth with en xi and is now living with a poor widow and gangster bro.. so Baddie now go lives with her real parents and they leave for USA, while en xi goes to live with her real mother too. then all grow up.. then jun xi has always liked en xi, even when they were siblings.. but what touched me was that his love n affections for her was so much like what i hoped my bro had for me.. like v caring n protecting her all the time.. made me cried whenever i watch tis.. haha.. its like true affection so sincere.. but i noe its suggest incest rite? but doesnt matter ma, its just so genunine that it touches me.. so aft they all grow up, jun xi n en xi eventually reunited and fall in luv.. tho they were nt real siblings, tis idea was opposed by the parents who found it awkward nt to see en xi as their 'daughter' as they have also raised her b4 ma..then en xi had leukemia or sth.. and i thk she eventually died.. v sad hor..

but anyway to me, the main drama is the swop at birth, wic made me so empathize with the characters.. tis kind of ting is really best left unfound out lor, dun u thk so? i mean, what to do if u are the parent?wld u swop the daughter u have raised n loved believing her to b ur daughter for ur real blood daughter or wld u forget the matter? i guess if i rather not swop.. cuz it complicates matter.. asking me to abandon someone i raised n loved as my own for 14 yrs just cuz she's nt my real birth daughter? i thk thats too cruel.. it reminds me of an issue abt whether birth matters more or nurture.. nature or nurture.. act, i always believe more in nuture.. y care abt that daughter nt being ur own since u have always loved n raised her thking she was? u mean, u can just suddenly love another girl just bcuz u find out that she's ur real daughter? for me, i feel its abit incredulous.. and tis matter will only make everyone unhappy n shocked suddenly.. maybe one mite regret not having known n be able to be called mother by ur real daughter, but isnt it enuff that u have another daughter that mite nt be ur own that loves u n is filial to u? to me, i thk thats sufficient ba.. i mean, it wld be too selfish to demand to have both girls rite.. den what will happen to the other woman who mite also wan both girls? sigh i say liao ma, complicated!!!

but in tis case, its cuz the rich mother is heartbroken that her real daughter has to suffer with the poor widow.. but she cant bear to let the daughter she has raised to go back to her poor biological mother... but if u were to let the rich mother take both daughters, its also unfair to the poor one rite? sigh what a huge human dilemma..what u guys thk? can tag if u got any comments.. haha..

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